I'm being told vs Told

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

I'm being told

Top 2,000 (common)

Told

Top 1,000 (very common)
Most common: Told
 I'm being toldTold
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //aɪm ˈbiːɪŋ təʊld//🇺🇸 //aɪm ˈbiɪŋ toʊld//🇬🇧 //təʊld//🇺🇸 //toʊld//
MeaningI am receiving information or advice from someone.Said something to someone.
ExampleI'm being told that the meeting has been delayed.He told me a funny joke yesterday.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Top 1,000 (very common)
Collocationsbeing told something, being told what to do, being told the truthtold a story, told the truth, told someone, told the truth, told about
Antonyms-withheld, kept quiet
Common mistakesUsing it in overly formal contexts., Confusing it with 'I was told' (past tense)., Forgetting to specify who is doing the telling.Confused with 'tell' - use 'told' only for past., Omitting the object - always specify who you told., Using 'told' without a direct object - needs a recipient.
Usage notesUsed to describe being informed or advised by another person. It's common in spoken and written English but can sound passive. Avoid using it in formal writing.Use 'told' for past communication. It's neutral and fits in most contexts, but avoid it for informal spoken contexts where 'said' might be more common.

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Frequently asked questions: I'm being told vs Told

What's the difference between I'm being told and Told?

I'm being told: I am receiving information or advice from someone. Told: Said something to someone.

Which is more common: I'm being told and Told?

Told is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

I'm being told: I'm being told that the meeting has been delayed. Told: He told me a funny joke yesterday.

Can I use I'm being told and Told interchangeably?

Not always. I'm being told and Told are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.