Abandon vs You give up on them

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Abandon

Top 2,000 (common)B2verb

You give up on them

Top 2,000 (common)
 AbandonYou give up on them
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //əˈbændən//🇺🇸 //əˈbændən//🇬🇧 //juː ɡɪv ʌp ɒn ðɛm//🇺🇸 //juː ɡɪv ʌp ɑn ðɛm//
MeaningTo leave something behind and not return.You stop trying to help or believe in them.
ExampleThey decided to abandon the project due to lack of funds.Sometimes, you just have to give up on them if they don't appreciate your efforts.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Top 2,000 (common)
CEFR levelB2-
Part of speechverb
Collocationsabandon a plan, abandon a hope, abandon a shipgive up on someone, never give up on them, give up on a project, don’t give up on hope
Antonymsretain, keep, continue-
Common mistakesConfused with 'leave' in meanings., Using 'abandon' with non-physical subjects (shouldn't use for people in most contexts)., Omitting the object after 'abandon'.Confusing 'give up on' with just 'give up', which means to stop trying altogether without specifying the object., Using 'give up on' with nouns that can't be influenced, like 'it' instead of 'them'.
Usage notesCommonly used in both formal and informal contexts. Can imply giving up or leaving something without intention to return.Use this phrase in contexts where someone stops trying to support or help another person, often when they feel it is futile. It’s appropriate in both formal and informal settings, but tends to be more common in spoken English.

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Frequently asked questions: Abandon vs You give up on them

What's the difference between Abandon and You give up on them?

Abandon: To leave something behind and not return. You give up on them: You stop trying to help or believe in them.

Can you show an example of each?

Abandon: They decided to abandon the project due to lack of funds. You give up on them: Sometimes, you just have to give up on them if they don't appreciate your efforts.

Can I use Abandon and You give up on them interchangeably?

Not always. Abandon and You give up on them are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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