Lose vs Slip through our fingers

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Lose

Top 1,000 (very common)A1verb

Slip through our fingers

Top 3,000 (common)
Most common: Lose
 LoseSlip through our fingers
Pronunciation🇬🇧 /["/luːz/","/ˈluːzɪz/","/lɒst/","/ˈluːzɪŋ/"]/🇺🇸 /["/luːz/","/ˈluːzɪz/","/lɔːst/","/ˈluːzɪŋ/"]/🇬🇧 //slɪp θruː aʊər ˈfɪŋɡəz//🇺🇸 //slɪp θruː aʊər ˈfɪŋɡərz//
Meaningto no longer have something; to not winTo lose something or someone quickly and easily.
ExampleI tend to lose my keys all the time.The chance to travel last summer really slipped through our fingers.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 3,000 (common)
CEFR levelA1-
Part of speechverb
Collocationsforever, be about to, be going to, be likely to, forever, be about to, be going to, be likely to, forever, be about to, be going to, be likely to, hate to, not bear to, not like to, against, by, to, win or lose, forever, be about to, be going to, be likely tolet it slip through, slip through the cracks, slip through your fingers
Antonymswin, gain, retainhold firmly, seize, grab, retain
Common mistakesConfused with 'loose' - they sound similar but have different meanings., Using 'losing' instead of 'lost' for past events., Mixing up 'lose' with 'loose' in written sentences.Confused with 'slip away' which has a different meaning., Used incorrectly in sentences without clear context of loss.
Usage notesUsed in both formal and informal contexts. It is appropriate for expressing the loss of items, competitions, or even relationships. Avoid using in overly formal written contexts.Commonly used to express loss of opportunities or moments. More poetic than literal; avoid in very formal settings.

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Frequently asked questions: Lose vs Slip through our fingers

What's the difference between Lose and Slip through our fingers?

Lose: to no longer have something; to not win Slip through our fingers: To lose something or someone quickly and easily.

Which is more common: Lose and Slip through our fingers?

Lose is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Lose: I tend to lose my keys all the time. Slip through our fingers: The chance to travel last summer really slipped through our fingers.

Can I use Lose and Slip through our fingers interchangeably?

Not always. Lose and Slip through our fingers are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.