Bear with me vs Hold on

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Bear with me

InformalTop 2,000 (common)B2

Hold on

Top 2,000 (common)
Most formal: Hold on
 Bear with meHold on
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //beə wɪð miː//🇺🇸 //bɛr wɪð mi//🇬🇧 //həʊld ɒn//🇺🇸 //hoʊld ɑn//
MeaningPlease be patient.Wait a moment
ExampleCan you bear with me while I find the report?Please hold on while I check the information.
RegisterInformalNeutral
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Top 2,000 (common)
CEFR levelB2-
Collocationsbear with me for a moment, please bear with me, can you bear with me, bear with me a second, bear with me while Ihold on a second, hold on tight, hold on the line
Antonyms-rush, hurry, advance
Common mistakes'Bear with me' confused with 'bare with me'., Using in overly formal contexts., Not using the correct verb form (e.g. 'bare' instead of 'bear').Confused with 'hold up' which means to delay, Using it in very formal contexts where 'please wait' is better, Not using it as a standalone phrase
Usage notesThis phrase is often used during conversations when someone needs a moment to gather their thoughts or deal with a situation. It's casual and best used among friends or colleagues, but may be too informal in very formal situations.Use 'hold on' when asking someone to wait briefly. It's appropriate in casual conversations but can be used in more formal situations as well. Avoid in very formal writing.

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Frequently asked questions: Bear with me vs Hold on

What's the difference between Bear with me and Hold on?

Bear with me: Please be patient. Hold on: Wait a moment

Which is more formal: Bear with me and Hold on?

Hold on is the most formal of these.

Can you show an example of each?

Bear with me: Can you bear with me while I find the report? Hold on: Please hold on while I check the information.

Can I use Bear with me and Hold on interchangeably?

Not always. Bear with me and Hold on are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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