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Tender

UK /["/ˈtendə(r)/"]/US /["/ˈtendər/"]/

Definition

kind, gentle and loving

In simple words: Soft or easy to cut or chew.

Examples

  • She gave a tender smile that showed her genuine care.
  • The steak was cooked perfectly and was very tender.
  • He wrote a tender letter expressing his deepest feelings.
  • After the injury, his arm felt sore and tender to touch.
  • They shared a tender moment during the farewell.
  • The government issued a tender for the new construction project.

Usage notes

Used to describe food that is not tough, such as tender meat or vegetables. Can also refer to feelings of gentleness or care. Avoid in very formal contexts.

Grammar pattern

standalone adjective

Memory hint

Think of 'tender' as similar to 'tend my garden' — soft and caring.

Collocations

  • be
  • feel
  • seem
  • achingly
  • very
  • almost
  • towards/​toward
  • be
  • seem
  • become
  • beautifully
  • deliciously
  • exceptionally
  • be
  • feel
  • look
  • extremely
  • fairly
  • very

Synonyms

  • sore
  • delicate

Antonyms

  • tough
  • hard
  • stiff

Common mistakes

  • Confused with 'tender' meaning sensitive and 'tender' meaning soft.
  • Using 'tender' to describe something unrelatable like a hard object.
  • Mixing up 'tender' with similar-sounding words.