Despair vs Hope is lost

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Despair

Top 2,000 (common)

Hope is lost

Beyond 10,000 (less common)
Most common: Despair
 DespairHope is lost
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //dɪsˈpeə//🇺🇸 //dɪsˈpɛr//🇬🇧 //həʊp ɪz lɒst//🇺🇸 //hoʊp ɪz lɔst//
Meaninga feeling of great sadness and hopelessnessWhen there is no more hope.
ExampleShe fell into deep __________ after losing her job.After years of searching, she felt that all hope is lost.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Beyond 10,000 (less common)
Collocationsdeep despair, fall into despair, overcome despairsense of hope, give up hope, hope for the best, hope is fading, hope is ignited
Antonymshope, confidence, optimism-
Common mistakesConfused with 'despairing' (verb form)., Omitted the noun article (e.g., 'the despair')., Used incorrectly with positive contexts.Confusing with 'hope is gone' - 'lost' implies a deeper sense of hopelessness., Using in positive contexts - it's used when things seem very bleak., Misplacing the phrase in a sentence - it should be used as is, not modified.
Usage notesUsed when someone feels they cannot improve their situation. Avoid in very casual conversations, as it may sound overly dramatic.Use in situations of despair or when something unlikely happens. It’s suitable in both spoken and written contexts.

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Frequently asked questions: Despair vs Hope is lost

What's the difference between Despair and Hope is lost?

Despair: a feeling of great sadness and hopelessness Hope is lost: When there is no more hope.

Which is more common: Despair and Hope is lost?

Despair is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Despair: She fell into deep __________ after losing her job. Hope is lost: After years of searching, she felt that all hope is lost.

Can I use Despair and Hope is lost interchangeably?

Not always. Despair and Hope is lost are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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