Despair vs Misery

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Despair

Top 2,000 (common)

Misery

Top 2,000 (common)C1noun
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Pronunciation🇬🇧 //dɪsˈpeə//🇺🇸 //dɪsˈpɛr//🇬🇧 /["/ˈmɪzəri/"]/🇺🇸 /["/ˈmɪzəri/"]/
Meaninga feeling of great sadness and hopelessnessA feeling of great unhappiness or suffering.
ExampleShe fell into deep __________ after losing her job.The constant misery of living in poverty affected his outlook on life.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Top 2,000 (common)
CEFR level-C1
Part of speechnoun
Collocationsdeep despair, fall into despair, overcome despairabject, great, real, be full of, endure, feel, misery of, make somebody’s life a misery, abject, great, real, be full of, endure, feel, misery of, make somebody’s life a misery
Antonymshope, confidence, optimismhappiness, joy, comfort
Common mistakesConfused with 'despairing' (verb form)., Omitted the noun article (e.g., 'the despair')., Used incorrectly with positive contexts.Confused with 'miserable' as a verb instead of an adjective., Misusing it to describe minor inconveniences., Using it without context, making it unclear.
Usage notesUsed when someone feels they cannot improve their situation. Avoid in very casual conversations, as it may sound overly dramatic.Use this word when talking about deep sadness or distress. It is generally appropriate in serious contexts, but avoid using it casually.

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Frequently asked questions: Despair vs Misery

What's the difference between Despair and Misery?

Despair: a feeling of great sadness and hopelessness Misery: A feeling of great unhappiness or suffering.

Can you show an example of each?

Despair: She fell into deep __________ after losing her job. Misery: The constant misery of living in poverty affected his outlook on life.

Can I use Despair and Misery interchangeably?

Not always. Despair and Misery are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.