Refer vs Relate

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Refer

Top 5,000 (fairly common)A2verb

Relate

Top 2,000 (common)B1verb
Most common: Relate
 ReferRelate
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //rɪˈfɜːr//🇺🇸 //rɪˈfɜr//🇬🇧 //rɪˈleɪt//🇺🇸 //rɪˈleɪt//
Meaningto mention or talk about somethingTo show how things are connected or similar.
ExamplePlease refer to the guide for more information.Can you relate your experience to this topic?
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 5,000 (fairly common)Top 2,000 (common)
CEFR levelA2B1
Part of speechverbverb
Collocationsrefer to, refer back, refer someone to, commonly referred, frequently referrelate to, relate a story, relate with, relate concepts
Antonymsignore, overlookdisconnect, separate
Common mistakesConfusing 'refer' with 'suggest' which has different usage., Using 'refer' without specifying what is being referred to., Incorrectly using 'refer' in passive voice.Confused with 'relation' (the noun form)., Used incorrectly in passive voice, e.g., 'is related by'., Forgetting to specify what is being related.
Usage notesUse 'refer to' when pointing to something specific, often followed by a noun or pronoun. Avoid using it without mentioning what you are referring to.Use 'relate' to discuss connections or stories. It's appropriate in both casual and professional contexts.

Frequently asked questions: Refer vs Relate

What's the difference between Refer and Relate?

Refer: to mention or talk about something Relate: To show how things are connected or similar.

Which is more common: Refer and Relate?

Relate is the most common in everyday English.

Which is more advanced: Refer and Relate?

Relate is the highest level, at B1, on the CEFR scale.

Are Refer and Relate the same CEFR level?

Refer: A2, Relate: B1 on the CEFR scale.

What part of speech are Refer and Relate?

Refer: verb, Relate: verb.

Can you show an example of each?

Refer: Please refer to the guide for more information. Relate: Can you relate your experience to this topic?

Can I use Refer and Relate interchangeably?

Not always. Refer and Relate are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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