Excuse me vs Hey you

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Excuse me

Top 1,000 (very common)

Hey you

InformalTop 2,000 (common)
Most formal: Excuse meMost common: Excuse me
 Excuse meHey you
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ɪkˈskjuːz miː//🇺🇸 //ɪkˈskjus mi//🇬🇧 //heɪ juː//🇺🇸 //heɪ ju//
MeaningA polite way to get someone's attention or ask for something.A casual way to get someone's attention.
ExampleExcuse me, could you please help me?Hey you! Over here!
RegisterNeutralInformal
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 2,000 (common)
Collocationsexcuse me, please, excuse me for interrupting, excuse me, do you mind?Hey you, guess what, Hey you, come here, Hey you, look over there
Antonymsignore me, overlook, disregard-
Common mistakesUsing 'excuse me' in a rude way, Saying 'excuse me' too loudly in quiet places, Not using it when walking past someoneUsing it as a formal greeting., Assuming everyone will find it friendly., Not using context-appropriate intonation.
Usage notesUse this phrase when you need to interrupt or ask for help politely. It's appropriate in most situations but avoid using it in very formal contexts.Use 'Hey you' among friends or informal situations. Avoid in formal contexts or when addressing someone you're not familiar with.

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Frequently asked questions: Excuse me vs Hey you

What's the difference between Excuse me and Hey you?

Excuse me: A polite way to get someone's attention or ask for something. Hey you: A casual way to get someone's attention.

Which is more formal: Excuse me and Hey you?

Excuse me is the most formal of these.

Which is more common: Excuse me and Hey you?

Excuse me is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Excuse me: Excuse me, could you please help me? Hey you: Hey you! Over here!

Can I use Excuse me and Hey you interchangeably?

Not always. Excuse me and Hey you are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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