Honestly vs To tell you the truth

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Honestly

Top 1,000 (very common)

To tell you the truth

Top 2,000 (common)
Most common: Honestly
 HonestlyTo tell you the truth
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ˈɒnɪstli//🇺🇸 //ˈɑnɪstli//🇬🇧 //tə tɛl jʊ ðə truːθ//🇺🇸 //tə tɛl jʊ ðə truθ//
MeaningIn a truthful way.Honestly, I'm being truthful with you.
ExampleHonestly, I didn't know what to say.To tell you the truth, I wasn't very excited about the party.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 2,000 (common)
Collocationsspeak honestly, honestly admit, honestly sayto tell you the whole truth, to tell you the absolute truth, to tell the truth
Antonymsdishonestly, insincerelyto lie, to deceive
Common mistakesConfused with 'honestly speaking'—don't overuse it., Using it in overly formal contexts can sound odd., Sometimes placed incorrectly in a sentence.Omitting 'the' ('to tell you truth'), Using in formal contexts too often, Overusing in casual conversations
Usage notesUsed to emphasize truthfulness, often at the beginning of a sentence. Suitable in both casual and formal contexts.Used when introducing a frank opinion or confession. Best in conversations where honesty is valued; avoid in formal writing.

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Frequently asked questions: Honestly vs To tell you the truth

What's the difference between Honestly and To tell you the truth?

Honestly: In a truthful way. To tell you the truth: Honestly, I'm being truthful with you.

Which is more common: Honestly and To tell you the truth?

Honestly is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Honestly: Honestly, I didn't know what to say. To tell you the truth: To tell you the truth, I wasn't very excited about the party.

Can I use Honestly and To tell you the truth interchangeably?

Not always. Honestly and To tell you the truth are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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