Annoy vs Bother

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Annoy

Top 1,000 (very common)B1verb

Bother

Top 1,000 (very common)B1verb
 AnnoyBother
Pronunciation🇬🇧 /["/əˈnɔɪ/","/əˈnɔɪz/","/əˈnɔɪd/","/əˈnɔɪɪŋ/"]/🇺🇸 /["/əˈnɔɪ/","/əˈnɔɪz/","/əˈnɔɪd/","/əˈnɔɪɪŋ/"]/🇬🇧 /["/ˈbɒðə(r)/","/ˈbɒðəz/","/ˈbɒðəd/","/ˈbɒðərɪŋ/"]/🇺🇸 /["/ˈbɑːðər/","/ˈbɑːðərz/","/ˈbɑːðərd/","/ˈbɑːðərɪŋ/"]/
Meaningto bother someone or make them angryto trouble or annoy someone
ExampleHis constant joking was beginning to annoy her.I didn't mean to bother you while you were working.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 1,000 (very common)
CEFR levelB1B1
Part of speechverbverb
Collocationsintensely, really, be beginning to, be starting to, do something just to annoy somebody, do something only to annoy somebodydon’t bother, bother someone, bother with, bother about, bother to
Antonymsplease, satisfy, delightignore, assist, help
Common mistakes'annoy' is sometimes confused with 'irritate', which are similar but not interchangeable., 'annoyed' is often incorrectly used with 'with' instead of 'by'., Using 'annoy' for feelings, like saying 'I am annoy' instead of 'I am annoyed'.Using 'bother' without an object, e.g., 'He bothers' instead of 'He bothers me.', Confusing 'bother' with 'disturb' which has a stronger connotation., Wrongly using 'bother' in positive contexts, like saying 'I don't want to bother you' when wanting to engage.
Usage notesUse 'annoy' to describe actions that irritate others. It's appropriate in daily conversations but may sound too casual in formal writing. Avoid using it in overly serious contexts.Used in everyday conversation to express annoyance or concern. More common in informal situations and may feel too blunt in formal contexts.

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Frequently asked questions: Annoy vs Bother

What's the difference between Annoy and Bother?

Annoy: to bother someone or make them angry Bother: to trouble or annoy someone

Are Annoy and Bother the same CEFR level?

Annoy: B1, Bother: B1 on the CEFR scale.

What part of speech are Annoy and Bother?

Annoy: verb, Bother: verb.

Can you show an example of each?

Annoy: His constant joking was beginning to annoy her. Bother: I didn't mean to bother you while you were working.

Can I use Annoy and Bother interchangeably?

Not always. Annoy and Bother are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.