Her vs Herself

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Her

Top 1,000 (very common)A1pronoun

Herself

Top 2,000 (common)A2pronoun
Most common: Her
 HerHerself
Pronunciation🇬🇧 /["/hə(r)//ɜː(r)//ə(r)//hɜː(r)/"]/🇺🇸 /["/hər//ɜːr//ər//hɜːr/"]/🇬🇧 /["/hɜːˈself//həˈself/"]/🇺🇸 /["/hɜːrˈself//hərˈself/"]/
Meaningthe woman or girl that belongs to or is being talked aboutThe female form of 'himself', used to refer to the subject when it is a girl or woman.
ExampleWe're going to call her Sophie.She hurt herself.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 2,000 (common)
CEFR levelA1A2
Part of speechpronounpronoun
Collocationsgive her, tell her, see herby herself, take care of herself, enjoy herself, teach herself, believe in herself
Antonymshim, they, themhimself, themselves, yourself
Common mistakesUsing 'her' instead of 'she' as the subject of a sentence., Confusing 'her' with 'his' when referring to a female., Incorrectly using 'her' when the word should be a possessive noun.'Herself' is often confused with 'hers' (possessive)., Learners sometimes use 'herself' in place of 'she' in subject positions., Some learners forget to use 'herself' for the reflexive form when it's needed.
Usage notesUse 'her' when referring to someone female. It is appropriate in all contexts. However, do not confuse it with 'she', which is a subject pronoun.Use 'herself' when talking about a woman doing something alone or emphasizing her own actions. Avoid using it in overly casual contexts.

Frequently asked questions: Her vs Herself

What's the difference between Her and Herself?

Her: the woman or girl that belongs to or is being talked about Herself: The female form of 'himself', used to refer to the subject when it is a girl or woman.

Which is more common: Her and Herself?

Her is the most common in everyday English.

Are Her and Herself the same CEFR level?

Her: A1, Herself: A2 on the CEFR scale.

Can I use Her and Herself interchangeably?

Not always. Her and Herself are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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