Attractive vs Sexy

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Attractive

Top 1,000 (very common)A2adjective

Sexy

InformalTop 3,000 (common)B2adjective
Most formal: AttractiveMost common: Attractive
 AttractiveSexy
Pronunciation🇬🇧 /["/əˈtræktɪv/"]/🇺🇸 /["/əˈtræktɪv/"]/🇬🇧 /["/ˈseksi/"]/🇺🇸 /["/ˈseksi/"]/
Meaningnice to look at or interestingAttractive in a very appealing way.
ExampleShe wore an attractive dress that caught everyone’s attention.the sexy lead singer
RegisterNeutralInformal
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 3,000 (common)
CEFR levelA2B2
Part of speechadjectiveadjective
Collocationsbe, look, become, extremely, fairly, very, to, be, look, become, extremely, fairly, very, to, be, look, become, extremely, fairly, very, tobe, feel, look, extremely, fairly, very
Antonymsunattractive, ugly, repulsiveunattractive, ugly, plain
Common mistakesUsing 'attractive' to describe non-physical qualities too often., Confusing 'attractive' with 'attracting' when describing events., Using 'most attractive' instead of 'more attractive' when comparing two items.Using 'sexy' to describe non-people (like furniture) can sound odd., Confusing 'sexy' with 'sexy' as a noun., Using it in overly formal contexts.
Usage notesUse 'attractive' in neutral contexts, typically for describing people, places, or things. Avoid using it in overly formal situations, as it may seem too casual for professional descriptions.Use 'sexy' in informal contexts to describe someone or something appealing. Avoid in formal situations. Be mindful of the audience; it can be seen as inappropriate if used carelessly.

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Frequently asked questions: Attractive vs Sexy

What's the difference between Attractive and Sexy?

Attractive: nice to look at or interesting Sexy: Attractive in a very appealing way.

Which is more formal: Attractive and Sexy?

Attractive is the most formal of these.

Which is more common: Attractive and Sexy?

Attractive is the most common in everyday English.

Which is more advanced: Attractive and Sexy?

Sexy is the highest level, at B2, on the CEFR scale.

Are Attractive and Sexy the same CEFR level?

Attractive: A2, Sexy: B2 on the CEFR scale.

What part of speech are Attractive and Sexy?

Attractive: adjective, Sexy: adjective.

Can you show an example of each?

Attractive: She wore an attractive dress that caught everyone’s attention. Sexy: the sexy lead singer

Can I use Attractive and Sexy interchangeably?

Not always. Attractive and Sexy are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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