Sit down vs Sit the fuck down

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Sit down

Top 1,000 (very common)

Sit the fuck down

VulgarBeyond 10,000 (less common)
Most formal: Sit downMost common: Sit down
 Sit downSit the fuck down
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //sɪt daʊn//🇺🇸 //sɪt daʊn//🇬🇧 //sɪt ðə fʌk daʊn//🇺🇸 //sɪt ðə fʌk daʊn//
MeaningTo take a seat.To take a seat in a forceful way.
ExamplePlease sit down before we start the meeting.When he started yelling, I just told him to sit the fuck down.
RegisterNeutralVulgar
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Beyond 10,000 (less common)
Collocationssit down for a meal, sit down with friends, sit down and talksit down, shut up, calm down
Antonymsstand up, rise-
Common mistakesConfused with 'set down' which means to place something., Using 'sitted' instead of 'sat' as the past tense.Omitting 'the' and saying 'sit fuck down'., Using it in polite contexts., Confusing with 'sit down' which is neutral.
Usage notesUse 'sit down' in informal settings. It's polite to ask someone to sit down in a formal dinner party.Used in informal or confrontational contexts. May be considered very rude or aggressive. Not appropriate for formal situations.

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Frequently asked questions: Sit down vs Sit the fuck down

What's the difference between Sit down and Sit the fuck down?

Sit down: To take a seat. Sit the fuck down: To take a seat in a forceful way.

Which is more formal: Sit down and Sit the fuck down?

Sit down is the most formal of these.

Which is more common: Sit down and Sit the fuck down?

Sit down is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Sit down: Please sit down before we start the meeting. Sit the fuck down: When he started yelling, I just told him to sit the fuck down.

Can I use Sit down and Sit the fuck down interchangeably?

Not always. Sit down and Sit the fuck down are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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