Forgive me vs Pardon me

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Forgive me

Top 2,000 (common)

Pardon me

FormalBeyond 10,000 (less common)
Most formal: Pardon meMost common: Forgive me
 Forgive mePardon me
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //fəˈɡɪv mi//🇺🇸 //fərˈɡɪv mi//🇬🇧 //ˈpɑːdən miː//🇺🇸 //ˈpɑrdən mi//
MeaningPlease excuse me or let me off the hook.Excuse me
ExampleForgive me for being late to the meeting.Pardon me, could you please repeat that?
RegisterNeutralFormal
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Beyond 10,000 (less common)
Collocationsforgive me for something, forgive me if, please forgive mepardon my interruption, pardon my dust, pardon my mistakes
Common mistakesConfused with 'forgive' used without an object., Using inappropriately informal contexts., Incorrectly conjugating 'forgive' (e.g., forgiving me).Used incorrectly in casual situations, where 'excuse me' is more appropriate., Mispronounced or said too quickly, losing clarity., Omitting 'please' when seeking favor or attention.
Usage notesUse 'forgive me' when apologizing. It's appropriate in personal and professional contexts, but avoid it in very casual situations.Used to politely ask someone to repeat or to get attention. Formal context, often used when someone is interrupting or needs to ask for clarification.

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Frequently asked questions: Forgive me vs Pardon me

What's the difference between Forgive me and Pardon me?

Forgive me: Please excuse me or let me off the hook. Pardon me: Excuse me

Which is more formal: Forgive me and Pardon me?

Pardon me is the most formal of these.

Which is more common: Forgive me and Pardon me?

Forgive me is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Forgive me: Forgive me for being late to the meeting. Pardon me: Pardon me, could you please repeat that?

Can I use Forgive me and Pardon me interchangeably?

Not always. Forgive me and Pardon me are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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