They hurt you vs Torment

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

They hurt you

Top 5,000 (fairly common)

Torment

Top 5,000 (fairly common)B1noun
 They hurt youTorment
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ðeɪ hɜːt juː//🇺🇸 //ðeɪ hɜrt ju//🇬🇧 //ˈtɔː.mɛnt//🇺🇸 //ˈtɔːr.mɛnt//
MeaningTo cause you physical or emotional pain.extreme pain or suffering
ExampleThey hurt you when they ignored your feelings.The constant criticism was a source of great torment for her.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 5,000 (fairly common)Top 5,000 (fairly common)
CEFR level-B1
Part of speechnoun
Collocationshurt someone's feelings, hurt deeply, they hurt each othermental torment, physical torment, torture and torment, live in torment, feel torment
Antonyms-comfort, relief, pleasure
Common mistakesUsing 'hurted' instead of 'hurt' as the past tense., Confusing with 'hurt' meaning injury with 'hurt' as in emotional pain., Not clarifying who 'they' is in conversations.Confusing 'torment' with 'torture' – 'torture' has a stronger, more physical connotation., Using 'torment' in sentences without the right context, especially in casual settings., Mispronouncing the word, leading to misunderstandings.
Usage notesCommonly used to describe emotional or physical pain. Avoid in formal contexts; consider alternatives for sensitive discussions.Use 'torment' to describe severe emotional or physical suffering. It's neutral, suitable for both written and spoken contexts.

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Frequently asked questions: They hurt you vs Torment

What's the difference between They hurt you and Torment?

They hurt you: To cause you physical or emotional pain. Torment: extreme pain or suffering

Can you show an example of each?

They hurt you: They hurt you when they ignored your feelings. Torment: The constant criticism was a source of great torment for her.

Can I use They hurt you and Torment interchangeably?

Not always. They hurt you and Torment are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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