Sensitive vs Tender

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Sensitive

Top 1,000 (very common)B2adjective

Tender

Top 2,000 (common)C1adjective
Most common: Sensitive
 SensitiveTender
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ˈsɛnsɪtɪv//🇺🇸 //ˈsɛnsɪtɪv//🇬🇧 /["/ˈtendə(r)/"]/🇺🇸 /["/ˈtendər/"]/
MeaningEasily affected by emotions or feelings.Soft or easy to cut or chew.
ExampleShe is very sensitive to criticism and often takes it personally.She gave a tender smile that showed her genuine care.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 2,000 (common)
CEFR levelB2C1
Part of speechadjectiveadjective
Collocationssensitive topic, sensitive information, sensitive issuebe, feel, seem, achingly, very, almost, towards/​toward, be, seem, become, beautifully, deliciously, exceptionally, be, feel, look, extremely, fairly, very
Antonymsinsensitive, unemotional, calloustough, hard, stiff
Common mistakesConfused with 'sensitive' as being weak instead of aware., Using 'sensitive' for physical touch; better to say 'tender'.Confused with 'tender' meaning sensitive and 'tender' meaning soft., Using 'tender' to describe something unrelatable like a hard object., Mixing up 'tender' with similar-sounding words.
Usage notesUsed to describe people who easily feel emotions or react strongly. Can describe topics that require care due to emotional impact.Used to describe food that is not tough, such as tender meat or vegetables. Can also refer to feelings of gentleness or care. Avoid in very formal contexts.

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Frequently asked questions: Sensitive vs Tender

What's the difference between Sensitive and Tender?

Sensitive: Easily affected by emotions or feelings. Tender: Soft or easy to cut or chew.

Which is more common: Sensitive and Tender?

Sensitive is the most common in everyday English.

Which is more advanced: Sensitive and Tender?

Tender is the highest level, at C1, on the CEFR scale.

Are Sensitive and Tender the same CEFR level?

Sensitive: B2, Tender: C1 on the CEFR scale.

What part of speech are Sensitive and Tender?

Sensitive: adjective, Tender: adjective.

Can you show an example of each?

Sensitive: She is very sensitive to criticism and often takes it personally. Tender: She gave a tender smile that showed her genuine care.

Can I use Sensitive and Tender interchangeably?

Not always. Sensitive and Tender are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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