Excuse me vs My apologies

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Excuse me

Top 1,000 (very common)

My apologies

Top 2,000 (common)
Most common: Excuse me
 Excuse meMy apologies
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ɪkˈskjuːz miː//🇺🇸 //ɪkˈskjus mi//🇬🇧 //maɪ əˈpɒlədʒiz//🇺🇸 //maɪ əˈpɑlədʒiz//
MeaningA polite way to get someone's attention or ask for something.I'm sorry.
ExampleExcuse me, could you please help me?My apologies for the mistake.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 2,000 (common)
Collocationsexcuse me, please, excuse me for interrupting, excuse me, do you mind?extend my apologies, offer my apologies, express my apologies
Antonymsignore me, overlook, disregardNo apology, Unapologetic, No regrets
Common mistakesUsing 'excuse me' in a rude way, Saying 'excuse me' too loudly in quiet places, Not using it when walking past someoneConfused with 'my excuse' which has a different meaning., Used too casually in formal settings.
Usage notesUse this phrase when you need to interrupt or ask for help politely. It's appropriate in most situations but avoid using it in very formal contexts.Use this phrase to express regret; appropriate in most situations but more common in written or formal contexts.

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Frequently asked questions: Excuse me vs My apologies

What's the difference between Excuse me and My apologies?

Excuse me: A polite way to get someone's attention or ask for something. My apologies: I'm sorry.

Which is more common: Excuse me and My apologies?

Excuse me is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Excuse me: Excuse me, could you please help me? My apologies: My apologies for the mistake.

Can I use Excuse me and My apologies interchangeably?

Not always. Excuse me and My apologies are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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