Dear vs My king

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Dear

Top 2,000 (common)A1adjective

My king

InformalBeyond 10,000 (less common)
Most formal: DearMost common: Dear
 DearMy king
Pronunciation🇬🇧 /["/dɪə(r)/"]/🇺🇸 /["/dɪr/"]/🇬🇧 //maɪ kɪŋ//🇺🇸 //maɪ kɪŋ//
MeaningA word used to address someone in a friendly or loving way.a term of endearment for a male partner or friend
ExampleShe wrote a dear letter to her grandmother.You always know how to make me smile, my king!
RegisterNeutralInformal
How commonTop 2,000 (common)Beyond 10,000 (less common)
CEFR levelA1-
Part of speechadjective
Collocationsdear friend, dear sir/madam, my dear, dear onemy king, call my king
Antonymsunpleasant, insincere-
Common mistakesUsing 'dear' in casual texts when addressing friends., Confusing 'dear' with 'deer', the animal., Omitting a comma after 'dear' in a letter.Mixed up with 'my queen' used for females., Used too casually with strangers or in formal settings.
Usage notesUse 'dear' at the start of letters to someone you care about or for formal greetings. It may sound old-fashioned in casual conversations.Used affectionately among close friends or partners. Avoid in formal situations.

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Frequently asked questions: Dear vs My king

What's the difference between Dear and My king?

Dear: A word used to address someone in a friendly or loving way. My king: a term of endearment for a male partner or friend

Which is more formal: Dear and My king?

Dear is the most formal of these.

Which is more common: Dear and My king?

Dear is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Dear: She wrote a dear letter to her grandmother. My king: You always know how to make me smile, my king!

Can I use Dear and My king interchangeably?

Not always. Dear and My king are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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