Boyfriend vs Date

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Boyfriend

Top 1,000 (very common)A1noun

Date

Top 1,000 (very common)A1noun
 BoyfriendDate
Pronunciation🇬🇧 /["/ˈbɔɪfrend/"]/🇺🇸 /["/ˈbɔɪfrend/"]/🇬🇧 /["/deɪt/"]/🇺🇸 /["/deɪt/"]/
MeaningA male partner in a romantic relationship.A specific day, month, and year.
ExampleShe's got a new boyfriend.I have a date with my friends this Saturday.
RegisterNeutralNeutral
How commonTop 1,000 (very common)Top 1,000 (very common)
CEFR levelA1A1
Part of speechnounnoun
Collocationscurrent, latest, new, string, succession, have, meet, live with, troubleearlier, earliest, later, agree, agree on, arrange, stamp, book, after a/​the date, at a… date, before a/​the date, the big date, at a future date, at some future date, earlier, earliest, later, agree, agree on, arrange, stamp, book, after a/​the date, at a… date, before a/​the date, the big date, at a future date, at some future date, dinner, lunch, blind, have, find, make, movie, rape, on a date, date with, dinner, lunch, blind, have, find, make, movie, rape, on a date, date with
Antonymsgirlfriendindefiniteness, randomness
Common mistakesConfused with 'friend' only refers to platonic relationships., Using 'the boyfriend' inappropriately when referring to one of several., Assuming all relationships defined as boyfriend involve exclusivity.Confused with 'date' as in a romantic appointment versus a calendar date., Using wrong prepositions, like 'on date' instead of 'on this date'.
Usage notesOften used to refer to someone someone is dating. In formal contexts, use 'partner' or 'significant other' instead.Used in both formal and informal contexts. In formal writing, specify the exact format (e.g., 'March 1, 2023'). In informal speech, it can refer to a social occasion with someone special.

Frequently asked questions: Boyfriend vs Date

What's the difference between Boyfriend and Date?

Boyfriend: A male partner in a romantic relationship. Date: A specific day, month, and year.

Are Boyfriend and Date the same CEFR level?

Boyfriend: A1, Date: A1 on the CEFR scale.

Can I use Boyfriend and Date interchangeably?

Not always. Boyfriend and Date are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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