Absolutely not vs No no you can't you're not

When to use each in English, with meaning, register, and examples.

Absolutely not

InformalTop 3,000 (common)

No no you can't you're not

InformalBeyond 10,000 (less common)
Most common: Absolutely not
 Absolutely notNo no you can't you're not
Pronunciation🇬🇧 //ˈæb.sə.luːt.li nɒt//🇺🇸 //ˈæb.sə.luːt.li nɑːt//🇬🇧 //nəʊ nəʊ jʊ kɑːnt jər nɒt//🇺🇸 //noʊ noʊ jʊ kænt jɜr nɑt//
MeaningDefinitely not; strong refusal.A phrase used to strongly refuse or reject someone's action or request.
ExampleCan we go swimming in this cold weather? Absolutely not!No no you can't you're not allowed to play outside after dark.
RegisterInformalInformal
How commonTop 3,000 (common)Beyond 10,000 (less common)
Collocationssay absolutely not, respond absolutely not, use absolutely notno no, can't do that, you're not serious, not going to happen
Common mistakesUsing it with a polite tone in formal situations., Confusing it with 'maybe' or 'possibly'.Omitting 'no' in the phrase., Using it in formal contexts where a polite refusal is required., Changing the order of the words.
Usage notesUse in casual conversations to strongly disagree. Avoid in formal settings.Used in casual conversations to dismiss an idea or request. Not suitable for formal situations.

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Frequently asked questions: Absolutely not vs No no you can't you're not

What's the difference between Absolutely not and No no you can't you're not?

Absolutely not: Definitely not; strong refusal. No no you can't you're not: A phrase used to strongly refuse or reject someone's action or request.

Which is more common: Absolutely not and No no you can't you're not?

Absolutely not is the most common in everyday English.

Can you show an example of each?

Absolutely not: Can we go swimming in this cold weather? Absolutely not! No no you can't you're not: No no you can't you're not allowed to play outside after dark.

Can I use Absolutely not and No no you can't you're not interchangeably?

Not always. Absolutely not and No no you can't you're not are related and overlap in some contexts, but they differ in register, how common they are, and usage, so swapping one for another can change the meaning or tone. Check the differences above before substituting.

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